Hello! my name is Elle. I have 3 boys!!! I've been in a few relationships and I honestly believed that these guys were gonna be it... we talked about being married having more children..etc ..you know..the "American Dream" however, what I failed to realize is that people will lie, manipulate, and use you to get what they want and it took me along time to "open my eyes" to that........ So I'll start with my son's father........
We'll call him Jay......so Jay and I met in 2011 while I was going through some things with a former boyfriend.. and I would call Jay for moral support..what I didn't know is that Jay was after 1 thing and 1 thing only.....So Jay and I over the coming months would talk for hours on end about everything and I truly believed that that relationship was it...Naive me....Jay would come to my house and he ended up staying over for about a month or so...we did everything together..New Years Eve go to the mall hand in hand...he would hold my purse for me and wait patiently while I shopped, which I thought was so cute and not to mention he was light skinned and fine,but a little short for my liking, however I don't judge men on solely the physical. Fast forward to when I was at work one day and I was looking for something in my pocketbook and decided to look in an envelope that held my rent money to make sure it was still there...Guess what? the envelope was EMPTY..mind you it was hidden in a hole in the purse so I rush to my home 20 mins away on my 30 min break to ask Jay if he knew what happened to my money. So I get home (he's not expecting me to be there early) and there is cigarette and weed smoke full in my house (I'm not a smoker...PERIOD..no weed no cigs..NOTHING!) so I'm already steamed and I come home to that..well when I tell him someone took my rent money he says ..I'm gonna go get some money for you....And about 2 hrs later he hands some 100 dollar bills and I remember thinking to myself these look like my bills....long story short he was stealing my money and using it to take me out (reminds me of Destiny's Child "Bills, Bills, Bills" song line "buying my gifts with my own name....) so you know I kicked him to the curb what I didn't realize is that one night he had taken my ATM card withdrew money and had copied down the card number...SO this rolling stone months later had found his next victim and was feeding her and her family on my dime...Thank goodness for fraud protection in banks.......I know you're probably thinking why didn't I call the cops? I did..they WOULDN'T not Couldn't but WOULD NOT do anything about it...in the end he and I have no communication and he still victimizes women till this day........Tune in tomorrow for another drama filled story....lol
Sunday, October 12, 2014
Welcome to my "What's wrong w/ men" blog!!!! Now I didn't make this blog with the sole intention of just bashing men, but with the intention of the stories being shared helping another woman. Just because your man cheats doesn't make it your fault or just because he says bad things to you to hurt your feelings doesn't make it true.... so with that being said here's some of my life stories... please send in yours as well......and you can change names or not that's your choice........Enjoy!